Friday, 29 April 2016
Is it ever good to hold a grudge?.......Karma is a bitch! with Quiz!
After the last few weeks it got me thinking about grudges and how letting go makes you feel so much better than planning revenge and making life just so much more difficult for yourself. Holding onto a grudge not only means your not letting go of the problem thus not letting go of the emotion and still keeping hold of the anger!!! The list could go on but you certainly wont feel any better.
Something happening in your life which could mean that you would need to hold a grudge is not always an easy situation to be in. As a person I have been brought up to see the best in people and to make sure that everyone has a fair chance regardless of who they are. But when someone really crosses your bows what are you supposed to do? Let it go and be bigger person or go back guns blazing? Me? I prefer to chose the first one especially now I have children maybe a few years ago I might have been that person who went absolutely crackers and mental in order to make sure that the person, people or thing that had hurt me paid for sure!
Now with my babies (George and Baby Bump Arthur) that feeling has totally subsided. How I feel now is that everyone is who they are and if they've decided to be awful, calculating and hurtful to another human being and actually know they are doing it then that's sooooooooo their own choice and therefore must be able to accept the consequences of any wrong doing. I believe that good things happen to good people and bad things happen to those that decided to live their life as a though they are the only ones in it and take, hurt and disregard others.
I am a firm believer in Karma and feel that it will come round to bite those people that decide to ignore it (Haha like its magical....or is it?)
Me? .........I'm just going to wait for Karma to do what is needs to do and smile.
Are you a believer in karma? Have you got any mad stories that put Karma to the test? Try this quiz to see what kind of Karma do you have?
Yorkshire Pud xxx